How to Wash Backpacks + Lunch Boxes

My kiddos head back to school in a little over a week.  That means we’re getting ready for the new school year with lots of prepping of our systems, getting school supplies, and just trying to get ready for the new routine.  One of the things we’re doing this week is to check backpacks and give them a wash.  Typically I would have done this back in June but we went on vacation the day after school got out and I guess we just kind of forgot 🙂

Most fabric backpacks and soft lunch boxes CAN be washed – here’s how to do just that.  (I’ve washed numerous backpacks and lunch boxes this way over the years and have never lost one :))

Empty the backpack and/or lunch box completely – open all the pockets and compartments and make sure that there isn’t anything hiding.

Place in your washing machine and wash on gentle with a gentle detergent.  I use (and love) Molly’s Suds.

Leave all the pockets open and hang to dry or place outside to dry in the sun.

We keep backpacks and lunch boxes in our mudroom in this giant basket.  When the kids come home from school, they empty their lunch boxes and take out homework.  The backpacks and lunch boxes are easy for them to access and they have a ‘spot’.  Making sure that everything has a place makes it easy for kids to take responsibility for their own things.

 

Check out this post for some of my best ‘mom shortcuts’ – perfect for back to school!

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Put Together a Cleaning Caddy for Kids

With summer in full swing, structure and routines change.  In our house, the kids are responsible at an early age (I start with simple tasks at 2 years old) for tasks and chores around the house.  It’s helpful for me, teaches responsibility, and keeps the nagging away.  With my cleaning routine I am doing a little bit of cleaning every day and I integrate that into the kids’ days as well.  We all do a little bit every day and it really is just a couple minutes to complete a couple simple tasks.  I have a couple tactics that I utilize with our three kids and today I’m sharing one of my favorites – a Cleaning Caddy for Kids!

I have found that keeping a little cleaning caddy in the cleaning closet for the kids to use is helpful.  I keep it stocked with kid-friendly supplies so we can clean together and learn a little bit at the same time.  Here are the most-used and fought over supplies in the kids’ cleaning caddy.  I am not saying that you should go out and buy new supplies for your kids, feel free to ‘shop’ your current stash and put together a little kit for your kids to use.  If you have a two or three year old, a cleaning cloth, baby wipes, and a small duster could possibly keep them cleaning with you for quite a while 🙂

 

Want to teach your kids how to help around the house with daily tasks and chores?  Make it EASY and FUN for them to help out!  Keep the tasks simple and age-appropriate for your house.  This cleaning caddy can be used daily, weekly and/or as needed, depending on what works for your family and schedule.

Need some ideas for what kids can do to help out around the house?  Here are a couple ideas to get you started:

  • make beds
  • fold and put away clothes
  • dust
  • wipe baseboards, door handles, light switches (baby wipes are great for this!)
  • dust surfaces
  • wipe windows and mirrors
  • take out garbage
  • wipe counters
  • wipe kitchen table
  • sweep under kitchen table
  • tidy up bedroom
  • wipe bathroom counter and sink
  • sweep/vacuum floors

I also have some free printable chore charts for kids here if you’re interested or need some ideas of where to get started!

(Obviously, you know your children and know what they can/cannot do on this list, this is merely a suggestion and starting point.  Please use care to provide non-toxic cleaners or water in a spray bottle for your children.)

 

KIDS’ CLEANING KIT SUGGESTIONS:

  • microfiber and/or cleaning cloths
  • lint roller – great for helping clean lampshades and furniture (and it’s fun too!)
  • baby wipes – great for baseboards, doors, and door knobs
  • dusting wand
  • hand vacuum – I turn my stick/floor vacuum into a hand vacuum for the kids
  • mini broom with dust pan – clean up little messes under the kitchen table, after a project, etc.
  • scrub brush – use in the sink to clean toys, small animals, cars and trucks or outside to clean bikes, ride-on toys, etc.
  • soap – vegetable-based dish or castile soap – can be added to water and a spray bottle
  • water or non-toxic cleaner in a spray bottle (keep reading for my favorite DIY kid-safe recipe)
  • small cleaning caddy or bucket

Want to make a Kid-Safe Cleaning Spray that works and is safe for your kids to use?  Try this simple mixture:

  • 1 1/4 cup water
  • 1/2 cup white vinegar
  • 10 drops essential oils – My kids’ favorite mix is 5 drops of lemon and 5 drops of orange.

Pour into a spray bottle with funnel.  Attach spray top, shake to combine and use as you would any all-purpose cleaner.  (Not to be used on granite and marble; the acid in vinegar will etch the surface.)

You can grab this spray bottle and label in my Clean Mama Home shop here.

 

I love to include my kids in cleaning – not only does it teach responsibility but teaches them great life skills as well!  Go here to see all the posts I’ve written about cleaning with kids.

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Slam Dunk Summer Tips: Routines, Tips and Tricks to Ease Summertime Transitions

Summer break is creeping up on us. Having kiddos home with downtime, activities and a looser structure to the day can take some adjustment for all parties. With that in mind, I am always on the hunt for shortcuts, tips and ideas that make the transition to having kids at home easier. Peruse all these ideas and tried and tested tips that we have implemented with success in our home. Make this summer your best one yet!

 

Summer Schedule Printable

Daily Checklist for Kids

Teach Your Kids How to Do Laundry

Boredom Buster Activity Kits for Kids

Quick Sanity Saver Tips for Moms

Organizing Snacks and Lunches to Encourage Independence

Summer Boredom Busters – No Screen Time Required

Organizing Art Supplies in a Caddy

Mealtime Cutlery Caddy

Cleaning with Kids and Printable Chore Cards

30+ Things Kids Can Clean

Put Together a Kids Cleaning Caddy

Preschool Cleaning Tasks

School Age Cleaning Tasks

Simple Chore and Reward System

New here? Get on the list!

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Daily Checklist for Kids + Free Printable

With summer upon us we’re updating our household chores and expectations around the house.  At the beginning of the school year I tried something different with my older kids (upper elementary) and I am happy to say that it was really effective and a great way to gently remind them of their responsibilities.  You can see the post from last September on Instagram here.

Summer calls for a different structure and list – want to see what my kids are up to this summer?

You can make one of these for your kids (or yourself) – it’s super easy.  This is more of a reference list than an actual checklist.  I’ve found that by simply having it in clear view in their bedrooms with the combination of asking if they’ve made it through their list, is so simple, easy and habit forming.  You can use the one that my kids are using or create one just for your kids.

What you’ll need:

  • list – typed or written
  • laminator (if you’d like)
  • paper trimmer or scissors
  • clip to hang

Here’s the list my kids and I came up with – they understand each task and know HOW to complete it.  I’ve also included ‘now what activities’ on the list.  These are open-ended things like reading, drawing, writing a letter to a family member, working in a workbook, doing something nice for someone else, etc.  You can have these ideas posted somewhere or just talk about them.

Steps to Take:

  1. print your list (grab the one that my kids are using for free here)
  2. trim to size
  3. laminate if you’d like
  4. hang with a clip, on the refrigerator, or on a bulletin board

Simple, effective, and oh-so helpful for ending the nagging and reminding.

If you’re looking for ideas on what kids CAN do for chores and responsibilities at different ages, check out these posts:

Chores and Responsibilities for the Preschool Child

Chores and Responsibilities for the School-Aged Child

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Let’s Do Laundry – Simple Tips to Teach Kids

Laundry can be all-encompassing, overwhelming, and time consuming.  Over the years I’ve developed lots of shortcuts and easier ways to make it through the piles.  Today I’m going to share the method that I teach my kiddos to help them learn to do their laundry with the hope that it might help you teach your kids too.

If you’re new here you might want to check out my laundry routine – I do at least one load of laundry daily and I’ve found that it’s a huge time saver.

A couple things to point out first:

  • Each of my kids have their own laundry basket that stays in their bedroom closet. I find that this really helps because there isn’t any sorting to see whose clothes are whose.  One basket, one kid, easy peasy 🙂
  • No sorting through the clothes and separating whites from colors – new outfits go straight into the wash by themselves on COLD to set the color.  My oldest is 11 and we’ve been doing this since then and guess what?  No white t-shirts have been dyed pink or light blue 😉  I do separate my husband my clothes because we have enough whites and darks for two loads.
  • I wash the kids clothes on COLD and rinse on COLD and I use this laundry powder and white vinegar for softener (this also helps keep clothes colorfast) and wool dryer balls to keep the static away.

Let’s Do Laundry – Simple Tips to Teach Kids

 

Here’s the process we use for sorting, folding, hanging and putting clothes away.  My littlest one will help me as I fold and hang his clothes by putting away undies, socks, and folded clothes.  Having your littles a part of the laundry process is a really easy way to inactively teach them how to do their own clothes. Now, my older two are old enough to manage the process, they already know what to do and just need some guidance.  It’s a win-win!

Start with taking the clothes out of the laundry basket – as you take them out separate them out into piles – socks, undies, shirts that are hung up, pants, shorts, skirts, etc.  Lay them out on a clean floor, bed, or table.

Once they’re all separated out, start by hanging up your shirts.  We use this method – I mentioned it on Instagram:

  1. Grab your hangers – have them all facing the same way (it’s easier to quickly hang the clothes this way)
  2. Put a hanger on the first item on top of the stack
  3. Fold the hanger over so it’s still on the stack but not hung up
  4. Keep going until everything in the stack is on a hanger
  5. Hang up the stack

Fold pants, jeans, t-shirts and anything else that needs to be folded.

Once you have everything folded or hung, put it away!  That’s it – a method to help tame the madness that is laundry!

Here’s one of my favorite kid laundry tips – straight from my book Simply Clean – have you grabbed your copy?

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Boredom Buster : Activity Kits for Kids

As my kids are getting older I’ve been putting together activity baskets and bins with supplies for ready-to-make activities. I put these kits together for all of us : they encourage creativity, independence, and critical thinking. The kids can grab a bin, do an activity or two or three, put everything back in the bin and move on to something else.  Of course, a closet or drawer with oodles of activities available works too, but I find that when they have a ‘kit’ like this they are more inclined to be all-in to that activity for awhile.  It’s easy for them to put it away and then they can move on to something else.  These are my favorite bins (linked below) for this purpose because they come in two sizes and stackable with the lids.

One very popular activity bin is our science bin – a handful of supplies, a great science book and the kit is ready for creativity.  Come see what I put in the bin (all the links are at the bottom of the post in the shop the post images).

  • science book
  • ingredients for slime (baking soda, glue, saline solution, food coloring)
  • science tools – beakers, goggles, funnel, test tubes, eye dropper
  • scoops, pinchers
  • water beads (those teeny tiny dots are magic for kids 3+ (with supervision) – add water to them and they grow.  I put them in a large food storage container and the kids will scoop, measure, and play with them forever.

My older kids (upper elementary) are more into finding science experiments in the book and making them and my little guy (pre-k) will play with the science supplies, water, water beads, and colored water for hours.

If you like this idea, you can put together other kits like this – here are some ideas to get you started:

  • play-doh kit
  • slime kit
  • sewing kit
  • knitting + crochet kit
  • drawing kit
  • scratch-art kit
  • perler beads kit

Come see my favorite mom shortcuts in this post:
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Mom Shortcuts : Saving Your Sanity One Quick Tip at a Time

As a mom to three kiddos I love a clean house and while this might sound like an oxymoron, it can be done.  What’s even better than a clean house? A house that takes little effort to keep clean.  With a minimalistic style and simplified routines, I’ve found that keeping things tidy most of the time isn’t as difficult as one might think.

I talk a lot about this concept in my new book, Simply Clean – if you haven’t grabbed it, order your copy today!

Here are a few of my favorite shortcuts, simple things I do that make life just a little simpler.

SIMPLIFY LAUNDRY – I don’t sort the kids’ laundry – I simply wash any dirty clothes together on one day of the week.  To avoid any sorting, I wash each kid’s laundry separately and the older kids fold and put away their own clothes –  yay!  Each child has their own hamper in their closet – I think this keeps things easier from dirty to washed and put away.

DON’T USE A TOP SHEET – this saves time for changing sheets AND it keeps things easier for kids as they are learning to make their own beds.  Simply pull up the quilt or duvet and toss on the pillows and the bed is made.  Wash the quilt and/or duvet cover as you would sheets.

USE A PLASTIC TABLE CLOTH FOR PLAY-DOH AND CRAFTS – I keep a plastic table cloth in the play-doh bin and throw it down on the table before embarking on a play-doh or crafting session.  Clean up is a breeze and everyone has more fun 🙂

PREP FOR THE WEEK – Don’t let a new week surprise you, do a little something to get ready!

KEEP A SICK KIT – You know it’s going to happen – keeping a couple items on hand keeps those late night trips to the store to a minimum.

USE BINS FOR COATS AND SHOES – This is especially helpful when we have guests over for more than an afternoon and there’s lots of running in and outside.  Put a couple bins by the door and let the kids drop coats and shoes in the bins in lieu of shoes strewn from one end of the room to the other.

ENCOURAGE INDEPENDENCE – Plan for snacking and lunch-packing by keeping good food choices at the ready.

BOREDOM BUSTERS – Keep screen-free activities handy for kids to grab and use (especially in the summer!).

USE A BASKET FOR BOOKS INSTEAD OF A NIGHTSTAND – When kids are little or if you don’t want to invest in a nightstand, use a basket for books by the bed.  This creates a place for the often used items and it keeps things neat.  Use a clip-on light to illuminate the space in lieu of a table lamp.

BASKETS, BASKETS, BASKETS – my favorite tool for organizing kids’ stuff – open baskets.  They look nice on a shelf and kids can easily see what’s in them at a glance.

KEEP LIDS FOR WATER BOTTLES IN A BIN – I keep lids separate from water bottles – this allows everything to thoroughly dry and it saves space and keeps lids from falling on my head.

HOMEWORK CADDY – keep school and art supplies in a caddy for homework and crafting, grab the caddy, draw, do homework, and put everything back in a minute.  Once of my favorite tips, ever.

CUTLERY CADDY – Simplify mealtimes with a cutlery caddy.  Keep often used items handy and easy to grab.  This is great for little ones setting the table and for when you forget something – no need to get up and grab it as soon as you sit down.

I’d LOVE to hear your shortcuts – leave them in the comments!

 

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Be Prepared : Make a Sick Kit

Ah, ’tis the season for all sorts of viral, stomach and random bugs and sicknesses. If your community is anything like mine, it seems like everyone around us has fallen sick this winter, including us. It never fails that sickness creeps in at the most inopportune times like the middle of the night or when the thought of bringing all the kids to the store makes you want to run and hide. In an effort to avoid running to the store while helping my kids feel better at the same time, I like to keep a basket stocked with the necessities. I have found myself reaching for it and increasingly thankful that I have what I need on hand more than ever. Keep in mind that what I choose for my family when they are under the weather may be different than yours, but the concept remains the same no matter what. Having what you need on hand when sickness strikes is so helpful and makes tending to those who are sick a wee bit easier. Of course, check with your doctor or nurse line with questions and suggestions when in doubt. On to the good stuff! I keep a well stocked sick kit for just about anything that may come our way. Let’s take a peek at what I have in ours and what we use it for.  Some of the items I keep in the refrigerator and others are kept in the kids medicine bin in our linen closet.  I’ve linked just about everything up at the bottom of the post if you’re looking for sources (affiliate links used). Seventh Generation Disinfecting Wipes– I like to wipe down the germ hotspots, bathrooms, and other germy areas to minimize reinfection. Rubbing Alcohol Wipes– I use these often for wiping off thermometers, remotes, game controllers, tablets, and handles.  You can easily make your own with a cotton pad and rubbing alcohol. Biokleen Bac-Out– this works really well on carpet and clothing stains should the need arise. Rubber Gloves– because no one likes to touch that nasty stuff. Applesauce– easy on the tummy to digest when under the weather. Be sure to get the no sugar added kind. Chicken Stock or Broth– again, this is easy on the tummy and can help hydrate while adding a some nutrition without any additives. Coconut Water– this is our favorite beverage for rehydrating without any corn syrup, sugar or other unpronounceable ingredients. Berry Well this elderberry concoction works wonders at minimizing sickness and shortening the duration. We have not just the sick people but other family members take this when we come in contact with sick people or someone in our family has a bug. Essential Oils– there are so many options when it comes to essential oils. Do some research and see what may work for your family.  When the kids are sick or around illness, I use the kid-safe roll-ons from Plant Therapy (my favorite is the Germ Destroyer). Epsom Salt– Another favorite use for essential oil is to add a couple drops of lavender essential oil to a detox bath with 1/2-1 cup of epsom salt in a warm water bath.  Again do your research on this but it’s helped shorten the duration of a cold and lower a fever in our house. Mint Tea – helpful for sore throats and upset tummies, we always have a box of this on hand. Cough Medicine– because those middle of the night coughs are the worst!  I try raw honey first as that does a great job of soothing a hacking cough in a hurry. Motrin/Tylenol– when we need to bring a fever down in a hurry, we use these sparingly. Activated Charcoal– we use this when the stomach flu or nauseous tummies are on the brink. It can help avoid throwing up when you can catch it early. Activities/Movie– it helps to have something new or novel to watch or play with when day two or three of being sick is on the horizon.  I like the Color Wonder coloring books for little ones so they can stay on the couch or in bed and do a little mess-free activity. Toothbrushes– we replace toothbrushes after sickness strikes.  It’s nice to have a couple on hand just in case. Getting sick is never fun for anyone, but hopefully the inconvenience and duration can be minimized with a well-stocked sick kit on hand. What do you like to keep on hand for when sickness strikes?

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Summer Boredom Busters : No Screen Required

Summer Boredom Busters - No Screen Required - Clean Mama

As the school year winds down I/we get really excited for the summer.  For me, I love the relaxed mornings, trips to the pool, a little vacation time, and less structure.  I also know that we need a couple boredom busters to carry us through the summer because everyone needs a little downtime/ rest time, right?  Best thing about this list?  It doesn’t require a screen, an outlet, or a cord – hooray!  You could re-purpose this for trips, things to do with a sitter, rewards for extra chores, etc.

Here’s what you need to do:

  • grab a basket, a bucket, a bag to gather your boredom busters – look for something that you have and can reuse.
  • collect existing coloring books, workbooks, and other resources that you already have around the house that you know your kids will enjoy during the summer.
  • add some new activities – I like to keep things in a couple categories to captivate the kiddos for an hour or so.  Art, strategy, brain exercises, tactile activities, puzzles….
  • put together the bucket or basket and HIDE IT until summer – it’ll be a great surprise when the ‘I’m bored’ comments start!

small summer boredom busters

These are all items that we have, have used, or have bought for the summer – I know you and your kids or grandkids, or friends’ kids will love them.  This list is best suited for the elementary-aged crowd, but there are definitely some preschool, pre-teen and early teen crossovers here as well.

Summer Boredom Busters - Clean Mama

Kids go crazy for this fun book that contains 50 3-D models of creative and silly monsters. The pages are perforated and tabbed to make construction easier.  Papertoy Monster

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Star Wars meets paper airplanes. What’s not to love?  Star Wars Folded Flyers

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Step by step directions make paper airplane making easy and fun!  Klutz Book of Paper Airplanes

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This book is full of various brain games and puzzles to stump and challenge all minds.  Kids Big Book of Games

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This puzzle book is so fun! Various mazes, word games, visual and logic puzzles, and more will keep kids busy for hours.  Brainiest Insaniest Ultimate Puzzle Book

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Fun facts and challenges encourage kids to use their brains in new ways as they learn and solve puzzles.  National Geographic Kids Brain Games

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These intricate dot to dot puzzles range from 300 to 1400 dots. Intricate and challenging to encourage high level thinking skills.  Extreme Dot to Dot Animals

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Great for a variety of ages and skill levels, this book is full of fun and thought provoking problems that are sure to engage and challenge.  Word Winks

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Intricate color by number artwork that is ideal for building concentration and encouraging relaxation.  One for animal lovers : Color Counts: Animals

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And one that would be great on a road trip : Color Counts: Travel the USA

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The element of surprise in this coloring book makes it extra intriguing.  Mystery Mosaics: Book One

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Who doesn’t love a good maze? The details and twist and turns in this activity book make it extra fun. Extreme Mazes

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These simple but intriguing water toys are a blast from the past. Tomy Pelican Water Game

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Tomy Dolphin Water Game

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Encourage higher level thinking with this ingenious puzzle cube. ThinkFun Adams Cube

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This gravity powered logic maze is wonderfully versatile for various ages and skill levels.  Gravity Maze

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Encourage spatial thinking and logic with this addictive and challenging game. Rush Hour

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Mesmerizing and challenging, this three dimensional maze is fun for any age. Perplexus Epic

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And of course there needs to be one for me – The Inspired Room Coloring Book – it comes out July 1st, just in time for some lazy summer day coloring 🙂

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Have any other favorites to add?  Here are a couple more posts that might help you get through the summer!

Kid-Friendly Cleaning Caddy + DIY Cleaning Spray via Clean Mama

Simple Chore Chart and Reward System Your Kids Will Love via Clean Mama

How to Organize Snacks + Lunches via Clean Mama

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Essentials for Getting Kids Involved In Cleaning + Organizing

Essentials for Getting the Kids Involved In Cleaning - free printables and tips that work! - Clean Mama

Let’s just say it – it’s not easy to get the kids involved with cleaning and organizing.  It takes thought, planning, educating, and lots of patience.  Most of the time it probably feels like it’s easier to just do the cleaning and organizing yourself, but it’s worth it!  Involving the kiddos around the house not only encourages independence and responsibility, it helps kids learn lifelong skills for caring for and maintaining a home.  Today I’m rounding up my favorite posts all about kids, cleaning, and organizing – take a peek, print something out, and include those kiddos in the care of your home!

Create a simple homework caddy to cut down on misplaced supplies and homework chaos.A Simple Homework Caddy via Clean Mama

Teach your kiddos how to help with cleaning with these printable chore lists.  Laminate to make it a reusable list with the help of a dry erase marker.

Let's Clean House - 2 Free Kids Cleaning Checklists - Clean Mama

This simple chore and reward system helps encourage independence and add a little fun to the routine. Includes free printables to get you started!

Simple Chore Chart and Reward System Your Kids Will Love via Clean Mama

How about a room-by-room guide of things that your kids CAN clean?  This guide is the perfect place to start30 plus things your kids can help clean - a room by room guide for the home via Clean Mama

Wondering just what you can expect your school-aged child to do when it comes to cleaning and helping around the home? These lists are the perfect place to start. Includes printables too!

Chores and Responsibilities for the School-Aged Child via Clean Mama

Just because they are young doesn’t mean your preschooler can’t help with simple cleaning tasks! Check out these ideas and printables to help foster pride and independence with your child.Chores + Responsibilities for the Preschool Child via Clean Mama

Put together a cleaning caddy with fun tools and kid safe cleaners. Includes great ideas, DIY cleaner recipe and resources to make cleaning more fun.

Tools for Cleaning With Kids via Clean Mama

Have a tip or struggle to share?  I’d love to hear about it in the comments!

Essentials for Getting the Kids Involved with Cleaning- Clean Mama

 

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Kids Willingly Cleaning Their Rooms? It Can Happen for YOU!

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I’m so excited to have Amy McCready here today sharing her tips on kids cleaning their rooms.  I’ve collaborated with her to bring you free webinars on positive parenting topics like getting kids to listen and I just know how much you some of you have loved her webinars.  Keep reading for her amazing ideas AND to check out her brand new book!

Amy McCready

By Amy McCready, Founder of PositiveParentingSolutions.com and author of The “Me, Me, Me” Epidemic.

Three simple steps can be the start of tidy rooms without bribes, nagging, or hand-outs.

Ever feel like you’re fighting for your child’s attention against a huge host of distractions (think Legos, binge TV or the latest Instagram updates) and not necessarily coming out on the winning side? Now, toss in an expectation that kids should actually CONTRIBUTE by way of helping at home – heaven forbid! If you’re like some parents, you may be tempted to throw in the towel – after all, isn’t is just easier to do it ourselves rather than face the complaining and negotiating? There is hope however and it doesn’t require magic – though it might feel like it when you see the results.

Getting your kids to clean their rooms and help around the house WILLINGLY doesn’t have to be – well, a chore. In fact, if your goal is to raise kids that DON’T feel like they are entitled to everything, including having you act as their personal wait staff, then it’s time to put some serious un-entitling parenting tools in place. What it takes is a little language fine-tuning, a powerful shift in attitude and behavior, and some practice.

Let’s take a look at three steps that can make a difference in YOUR home:

  1. Watch your LANGUAGE. No, I’m not talking about THAT language; we all know to be mindful there already, right? I’m talking about removing the word chore from your household commentary and to-do lists and replacing it with the word contribution, or more specifically, family contribution. The difference? How it makes your kids feel. Think about it. The word chore conjures up the idea of burden, work, and the exact opposite of fun. The word contribution, on the other hand, is empowering (something kids need anyway) and makes them feel like they have influence, they make a difference and they’re part of the larger team. As a team, when everyone contributes and pitches in – the house runs more smoothly, things get done faster and there’s more time, energy, and resources to have FUN together.
  2. Let them know you NOTICE. Let your kids know the impact of their contributions and what it means to you. The truth is no one likes unloading the dishwasher, sweeping a floor, or cleaning out a toy chest – but when your kids notice that you NOTICE it changes everything. Let them know their efforts make a difference, such as, “Hey, you really helped out the family tonight. Now we have extra time to play a game, go for a bike ride, bake some cookies, etc.” It helps kids connect the dots – and feel significant. It also means you’ll have fewer power struggles and better cooperation and that’s a win-win you can count on.
  3. Let routines RULE. Let me share one of my favorite tools from the “Un-Entitler Toolbox” of my new book, The “Me, Me, Me” Epidemic – A Step-by-Step Guide to Raising Capable, Grateful Kids in an Over-Entitled World. The tool is called Let When-Then Routines be the Boss and it is amazingly simple yet effective for young kids through teens. This tool puts the ROUTINE in the role of negotiator. Here’s how it works: Structure your child’s less desirable tasks to occur before those things that are very desirable. At the same time, let kiddos know you’re not there to wait on them hand and foot and with privileges (those things they want and want to do) come responsibilities (family contributions). For example, “When you finish your daily family contributions, then you can have phone time.” Or, “When you finish folding and putting away your laundry, then you can enjoy your 30 minutes of TV time.” Now, after clearly communicating your When-Then, (and here’s the key) – leave the room or do whatever you need to do to block out the protests or negotiating that’s sure to follow. Then, stick to it. Eventually, your kids will not only get with the program, they’ll get a boost of significance when they finish the task and can access the privilege.

Like any shift in mindset and behaviors, putting these tools in place takes time, practice and patience. When you feel that shift take root in your home, it will not only be rewarding in the NOW, but you’ll set the stage for your kids to grow into hard working, contributing adults. And here’s a bonus – they’ll learn valuable life skills they’ll need to take care of themselves and their OWN family down the road. (Seriously, no one wants a 30-year-old who doesn’t know how to do the laundry or make a sandwich—or worse, feels like they are ENTITLED to have someone else do those things for them—right?) That’s great news – well beyond tidy beds, sorted socks, and swept floors, wouldn’t you say? Good luck and happy parenting!

Amy McCready is the author of The “Me, Me, Me” Epidemic: A Step-by-Step Guide to Raising Capable, Grateful Kids in an Over-Entitled World. Available August 11, 2015 wherever books are sold.

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  • Allowance & Chores: Tuesday, August 18 at 1 PM EDT
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Chores and Responsibilities for the School-Aged Child + FREE Printables

Chores and Responsibilities for the School-Aged Child via Clean Mama

As a mom to three children, two elementary age and one preschool, I can firsthand testify that our home runs more smoothly when everyone pitches in. As children grow older, their ability to contribute to household tasks and chores increases as well.  If you haven’t included your children in tasks around the home or if you’re struggling to come up with age-appropriate tasks, you’ll love this post!

I recently featured a post full of all sorts of age appropriate, helpful tasks that the preschool age child can help with. Today I am featuring tasks and chores that are geared toward the elementary and up aged child. You will notice that quite a few of the tasks are similar to the preschool tasks with a twist, like not just matching socks and folding hand towels, but folding an entire load of laundry.

As you go through these tasks and determine what work for your child and household, keep in mind that there is a developmental difference between a young elementary aged child and an older child in middle school. While you may not expect your first grader to roll the garbage and recycling to the curb, it is certainly an appropriate task for a sixth grader. Pick and choose what is appropriate for your child or children and watch your home run that much more smoothly when you delegate tasks and chores.

Household Chores

  • wipe baseboards/cupboards
  • help sort laundry into whites and brights/darks
  • help start and switch laundry loads
  • help fold laundry
  • help put away clean clothes
  • clean windows with damp microfiber cloth
  • pick up toys and activities, put books in bookshelf
  • help unload groceries
  • water plants
  • take care of pets
  • gather garbage
  • take garbage and recycling to the curb
  • get mail
  • dust surfaces
  • sweep floors
  • vacuum corners and edges along baseboards
  • vacuum floors using a lightweight upright
  • clean clutter from bathroom counter
  • wipe bathroom counter with dampened microfiber cloth
  • wipe doorknobs and switch plates

Morning/Evening Chores

  • brush teeth
  • brush hair
  • wipe face with a warm, wet washcloth after eating
  • make bed- pull up comforter/duvet and flat sheet up and put pillow at the top
  • put dirty clothes and pajamas in clothes basket
  • get dressed in the morning and pajamas in the evening

Mealtime Chores

  • simple mealtime prep help
  • pour beverages
  • set table with plates, glasses, napkins and appropriate silverware
  • bring dirty dishes to sink when done eating
  • put away leftovers
  • rinse dishes before loading in to dishwasher
  • load dishwasher (remove knives and sharp utensils until age appropriate)
  • dry and put away dishes
  • wipe down table
  • sweep up crumbs using a small dustpan and broom or handheld vacuum

How about some FREE printables to make implementing responsibilities for school-aged children a little easier?  I made 2 different simple chore charts and I also put the chores and responsibilities that I listed on a free printable.  Grab the zip file with all 3 free printables here and save and print what you will use and get your child(ren) started with some simple and do-able responsibilities.

Free Chore Printables for School Aged Children via Clean Mama

Here are a  few more ideas to encourage cleaning up – click on the images to go straight to the posts.

Chores + Responsibilities for the Preschool Child via Clean Mama

Tools for Cleaning With Kids via Clean Mama

Simple Chore Chart and Reward System Your Kids Will Love via Clean Mama

30 plus things your kids can help clean - a room by room guide for the home via Clean Mama

 

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If you like these FREE printables you’ll love my HOMEKEEPING SOCIETY and the organizing printables in my shop!

This post is part of my SIMPLE SUMMER CHALLENGE – throughout the month I’m sharing ways to keep up with routines while having lots of fun in the process.  Go here to see the introduction post, and here to see all the posts in this series.  Make sure you’re following me on Instagram for more on this summer challenge!

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Chores and Responsibilities for the Preschool Child + FREE Printables

Chores + Responsibilities for the Preschool Child via Clean Mama

It is a question that I receive often – how do I get my kids involved in cleaning? Just what chores are appropriate for their age?  With three kids of my own, two elementary aged and one preschooler, I feel as though I have honed in on just what to expect for a variety of ages. Today I am covering the preschool age group while the older kids will be covered next week.

Preschoolers are eager helpers and it’s hard to figure out just how to best harness their enthusiasm while giving them tasks that are actually useful. Depending upon the age and maturity of your child, there is a large variety of tasks that can be expected and accomplished by this age group. With this age group, modeling is especially important. For example, show them just how to dampen a washcloth and wring it out to wipe their face and hands or how to set the table appropriately with plates in the center and silverware on the left or right side. It will probably take more than one time for them to have it up to your expectations, so have patience as they learn the proper technique.

While not every child or age can be expected to complete every task in the list below, pick ones that fit your child or children’s age and maturity as well as your needs. After deciding ones that are good fits, use the blank list included in today’s download in order to make a checklist of sorts for your family.

With a little teaching and modeling, you will be surprised at just what your child is capable of.  Every little bit of help counts!

Household Chores

• wipe baseboards/cupboards with baby wipes
• help fold laundry- match socks, fold dishcloths and hand towels
• help sort laundry into whites and brights/darks
• help put away clean clothes
• clean windows with damp microfiber cloth
• pick up toys, put books in bookshelf
• help unload groceries
• water plants
• gather garbage
• vacuum corners and edges along baseboards
• wipe bathroom counter with dampened microfiber cloth
• dust lower shelves and items
• wipe doorknobs and switch plates

Morning/Evening Chores

• brush teeth
• brush hair
• wipe face with a warm, wet washcloth after eating
• make bed- pull up comforter/duvet and put pillow at the top
• put dirty clothes and pajamas in clothes basket
• get dressed in the morning and pajamas in the evening

Mealtime Chores

• set table with plates, napkins and appropriate silverware
• bring dirty dishes to sink when done eating
• wipe down table
• sweep up crumbs using a small dustpan and broom or handheld vacuum

How about some FREE printables to make implementing responsibilities for preschoolers a little easier?  I made 3 different colors of a simple chore chart and I also put the chores and responsibilities that I listed on a free printable.  Grab the zip file with all 4 free printables here and save and print what you will use and get your preschooler started with some simple and do-able responsibilities.

Free Chore Printables for the Preschool Child via Clean Mama

Here are a  couple more ideas to encourage cleaning up – click on the images to go straight to the posts.

Tools for Cleaning With Kids via Clean Mama

Simple Chore Chart and Reward System Your Kids Will Love via Clean Mama

30 plus things your kids can help clean - a room by room guide for the home via Clean Mama

 

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If you like these FREE printables you’ll love my HOMEKEEPING SOCIETY and the organizing printables in my shop!

This post is part of my SIMPLE SUMMER CHALLENGE – throughout the month I’m sharing ways to keep up with routines while having lots of fun in the process.  Go here to see the introduction post, and here to see all the posts in this series.  Make sure you’re following me on Instagram for more on this summer challenge!

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30+ Things Your Kids Can Clean : A Room-by-room Guide for the Home

30 plus things your kids can help clean - a room by room guide for the home via Clean Mama

With the onset of summer and the end of the school year, it isn’t long before both moms and kids crave a little routine and order. A looser summer schedule brings both freedom and a little extra chaos as messes tend to accumulate a little faster and are a little more rampant throughout the house.

To help offset the inevitable, I like to have my children help clean whenever and wherever possible. Even little ones can learn how to help with simple tasks that help to instill a sense of responsibility and pride. Older children benefit from routine and expectations to help the home run smoothly as well.

Whether you choose to use these room-by-room cleaning suggestions as chores or as incentives is up to you. These are some of the cleaning tasks that have been helpful and realistic in my home that I hope will inspire you to use them as a springboard for your family.

Bedrooms

  • Make bed. I use a fitted sheet on the kids’ beds paired with a washable quilt or duvet. This makes it easier for kids to simply pull up the cover and put the pillow at the top.
  • Help put away clean clothes as they are able.  Start with putting away socks and move on to other items as kids get older.
  • Put dirty clothes in laundry basket.
  • Put toys away. We try to use the rule that before a new toy or activity is taken out, the unused one needs to be put away.  We do several sweeps a day and check them before a special activity (screen time, snack time, friend time).

Bathrooms

  • Wipe down counter.  A damp and wrung out microfiber cloth with water works perfectly for cleaning up little spatters and spills. No harsh cleaners necessary.
  • Clean mirror.  A barely damp microfiber cloth is great for this task.
  • Refills empty toilet paper and tissue boxes.
  • Collect garbage.
  • Wipe down baseboards and around the perimeter of the bathroom with baby wipes.

Living Areas

  • Wipe baseboards with baby wipes.
  • Wipe light switches and door knobs.
  • Pick up toys. Check under couch and furniture for errant toys and odds and ends.

Kitchen

  • Help unload the dishwasher. Younger children can help sort silverware and older children can put away breakables, dishes and glasses.
  • Set the table.
  • Clear plates at the table, bringing dishes to sink.
  • Little ones can be taught how to use a small dustpan and broom to gather up crumbs and other little odds and ends as well as emptying it in to the garbage.
  • A handheld vacuum cleaner also works well for children to help with vacuuming up crumbs, small scraps, and kitchen floor debris.
  • Wipe the table down.
  • Help empty trash and sort recyclables.

Laundry

  • Help sort by color (whites, brights, and darks).
  • Sort and pair up socks.
  • Help make matches with pajamas and outfits.
  • Put clothes on hangers.
  • Collect garbage in the laundry room. I have a small trash basket in the laundry room for lint, tags, etc. that the kids take care of emptying when asked.

Pet Care

  • Take care of water and food for pets.  My oldest started this routine around 5 years old.
  • ‘Help’ with brushing and bathing.
  • Gather up pet toys at the end of the day to store in basket or container.

My Favorite Ways to Get Help in a Hurry

  • Set a timer for 5 or 10 minutes and work to clean an entire area or trouble spot.
  • Chore charts work well in our house to assure that kids have a visual reminder to check off daily.
  • Use completed tasks as ‘rewards’: once your clean room is cleaned up you can go play with your friends, take something else out, have screen time, etc.
  • Let kids help build a chore chart or responsibility chart. Taking ownership in the creation of the tasks will ensure a better success rate!

Here are a  couple more ideas to encourage cleaning up – click on the images to go straight to the posts.

Tools for Cleaning With Kids via Clean Mama

Simple Chore Chart and Reward System Your Kids Will Love via Clean Mama

This post is part of my SIMPLE SUMMER CHALLENGE – throughout the month I’m sharing ways to keep up with routines while having lots of fun in the process.  Go here to see the introduction post, and here to see all the posts in this series.  Make sure you’re following me on Instagram for more on this summer challenge!

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Kid-Friendly Cleaning Caddy + DIY Cleaning Spray

Kid-Friendly Cleaning Caddy + DIY Cleaning Spray via Clean Mama

With summer upon us, structure and routines change.  In our house, the kids are responsible at an early age (I start with simple tasks at 2 years old) for tasks and chores around the house.  It’s helpful for me, teaches responsibility, and keeps the nagging away.  With my cleaning routine I am doing a little bit of cleaning every day and I integrate that into the kids’ days as well.  We all do a little bit every day and it really is just a couple minutes to complete a couple simple tasks.  I have a couple tactics that I utilize with my kids (9, 7, and 3) and today I’m sharing one of my favorites – keep an eye out for more to come through the month.

I have found that keeping a little cleaning caddy in the mud room for the kids to use is helpful.  I keep it stocked with kid-friendly supplies so we can clean together and learn a little bit at the same time.  Here are the most-used and fought over supplies in the kids’ cleaning caddy.

Kid Friendly Cleaning Caddy via Clean Mama

Want to teach your kids how to help around the house with daily tasks and chores?  Make it EASY and FUN for them to help out!  Keep the tasks simple and age-appropriate for your house.  This cleaning caddy can be used daily or weekly, depending on what works for your family and schedule.

Need some ideas for what kids can do to help out around the house?  Here are a couple ideas to get you started:

  • make beds
  • fold and put away clothes
  • dust
  • wipe baseboards, door handles, light switches (baby wipes are great for this!)
  • dust surfaces
  • wipe windows and mirrors
  • take out garbage
  • wipe counters
  • wipe kitchen table
  • sweep under kitchen table
  • tidy up bedroom
  • wipe bathroom counter and sink
  • sweep/vacuum floors

(Obviously, you know your children and know what they can/cannot do on this list, this is merely a suggestion and starting point.  Please use care to provide non-toxic cleaners or water in a spray bottle for your children.)

Tools for Cleaning With Kids via Clean Mama

KIDS’ CLEANING SUPPLY SUGGESTIONS:

  • microfiber and/or cleaning cloths
  • sponge
  • baby wipes – great for baseboards and door knobs
  • small dusting wand – Target has the white ones
  • hand vacuum – I turn my stick/floor vacuum into a hand vacuum for the kids
  • mini broom with dust pan
  • water or non-toxic cleaner in a spray bottle (keep reading for my favorite DIY recipe)
  • small cleaning caddy – the one pictured is from Target – it’s a silverware caddy

 

Kid Safe Cleaning Spray Recipe via Clean Mama

Want to make a Kid-Safe Cleaning Spray that works and is safe for your kids to use?  Try this simple mixture:

  • 1 cup water
  • 1/4 cup white vinegar
  • 20 drops essential oils – My kids’ favorite mix is 10 drops of lemon and 10 drops of orange.

Pour into a spray bottle with funnel.  Attach spray top, shake to combine and use as you would any all-purpose cleaner.  (Not to be used on granite and marble; the acid in vinegar will etch the surface.)

DIY Cleaning Spray via Clean Mama

If you like this DIY recipe, you’ll love my book, The Organically Clean Home!

Here’s another way to encourage cleaning up – click on the image.

Simple Chore Chart and Reward System Your Kids Will Love via Clean Mama

 

Clean Mama's Simple Summer Challenge via Clean MamaThis post is part of my SIMPLE SUMMER CHALLENGE – throughout the month I’m sharing ways to keep up with routines while having lots of fun in the process.  Go here to see the introduction post, and here to see all the posts in this series.  Make sure you’re following me on Instagram for more on this summer challenge!

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